Dear Homeschool Kids

Dear Homeschool Kids,

So I’ve seen these videos/blog posts/ comments floating around everywhere and I just felt the need to say something. You’ve probably seen it too, a homeschooled alumni or currently homeschooled kids giving answers to questions that seem silly.  “Did you actually do school?”  “Where you super sheltered?” “Did you have any friends at all?”    I remember doing this too, I thought these questions were laughable. Then as I grew older I began to meet or read about other homeschool alumni, and I realized some of these questions are perfectly reasonable.

Here’s the thing fellow homeschoolers.  Some of us had it great, some of us got a good education, had friends and generally just had a great time. My mother has spent so many hours researching the best curriculum. Obviously no one’s perfect, but I know that she did and continues to do the best for her children. I know I got a pretty good education, a little lacking in math and science. But the point is my mom really tried.

But some of us didn’t. Some homeschoolers were raised in families that didn’t take education as seriously for females. Some of them were abused, and some didn’t have any friends outside of siblings.  The more I read and the more people I meet through the internet, the more I realize that abuse and education neglect are both misunderstood topics, and that very few people want to talk about the problems.

Abuse and education neglect in homeschooling families happens, and happens more frequently then most people realize.  Stories like the ones shared here,  here, and here, are just some of many stories that are being told by homeschool alumni.  My point isn’t to say homeschooling is bad or anything like that. My point is to simply help create more awareness in this area. We’ve all read about the stories of children being taken away from homeschooling and/or homesteading families, and I feel that some people think those cases are just random exceptions picked up by the media. Abuse can happen in any home; the schooling or religion doesn’t make people immune.

So if you’re a homeschooler, next time you’re asked one of these questions, don’t just laugh it off. Instead thank your parents or guardians for giving you the education and opportunities that you had because some people aren’t as lucky as you. Maybe consider donating to organizations like this one.  But at the very least let’s all stop pretending like there’s nothing wrong.

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5 Comments

  1. YES. THIS. Homeschooling was great for me, but I hate it when people act as though it’s perfect. Some homeschool parents are awful, and we need to raise awareness about what their kids went through.

    And on that note, I think you might like this site – I’ve spent a lot of time reading it these past few months! There’s an especially good series of posts about LGBTQ+ homeschoolers/alumni. http://homeschoolersanonymous.org/

  2. Pingback: Dear Homeschool Kids | Homeschoolers Anonymous

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